POSG | Jack Wolf
Imagine this: you’re at a party, armed with your best smile and your most charming anecdotes, but deep down, you feel like a lone island in a sea of social butterflies. If you’ve ever felt this way, don’t worry—you’re not alone. Today, we’re talking about projecting confidence without being disingenuous or over-compensating. Confidence is the …
Imagine this: You’re at a party, you’ve just spied the snack table, and suddenly you feel like a spotlight has pinned you to the wall. You’re convinced everyone is watching your every awkward move. Sound familiar? If this is your life in a nutshell, then you’re in luck. Today, we’re building your social fortress—no walls …
Confidence is a powerful trait that can greatly influence your life. But what exactly is confidence? Confidence is the belief in your abilities and yourself, creating inner strength that propels you toward your goals, encourages you to take risks, and helps you face challenges head-on. As noted by Verywell Mind (2024), “Confidence can refer to …
Asking for what you want can be a daunting task. Whether it’s requesting a raise, seeking assistance, or simply expressing your desires in a relationship, the fear of rejection often holds us back. Many people will never allow themselves to develop in this space. But why?
...You’ve arrived at the social event and have set your sights on that intriguing, captivating person across the room. How do you start a conversation, and how do you keep it flowing? Be brave and take the initiative. Before you step forward, remind yourself that you too are intriguing, captivating, and worth talking to. It’s natural to feel intimidated, and you might struggle to believe this at first. However, remember that the person you want to talk to is also hoping to meet engaging and interesting people. They might not realize you’re interested in starting a conversation. Approach with confidence, begin with light and encouraging small talk, and see where it takes you. Once the conversation starts, being yourself is crucial. Authentic interactions are more enjoyable and comfortable for everyone involved.
...Does the thought of being in a crowd or spending time with a group make you anxious? You’re not alone. Feeling nervous in new situations or when you’re the center of attention is completely normal. People experience varying levels of social anxiety—from minor butterflies to overwhelming feelings that interfere with daily life. Public speaking, job interviews, or even going on a date can make anyone’s heart race and induce awkwardness!
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